there have been a few times people have added mares to my stallions and i don't look at my horses everyday, so i might go a week or two without knowing someone added a mare, so maybe if we could get some sort of notification about someone requesting a breeding from stallion #0000?

i agree to this! 

Although no one ever requests breeding from me,  I think this would be a good idea. It may get a tad annoying having to go and delete all the messages when you request to breed with your own horses though. 

deleting my own requests is something i'd be willing to deal with lol