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Kuwait | You're So Vain, I Bet You Think This Title's About You | July 25th, 2020 11:29:08pm 2,913 Posts |
I work in a convenience store, and one of my regulars has me infuriated. I'm so tempted to tell him that kittens need kitten food because it has the meets a kittens energy requirements as well as other nutrients to help it grow and develop properly. But I'm 99% certain he'll ignore my advice again. So next time he asks advice about the kitten, I'm also tempted to say "I'm sorry, but I've given you advice in the past and you've ignored it." What would you folks do? |
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Eyre ‣ long live the pioneers July 27th, 2020 7:54:38pm 10,105 Posts |
I think that is a fair comment to make. It's not like he is particularly attuned to the advice you've already given him. And you did point out how to go about accessing your advice in a way that was proactive instead of a comment only. It's on him to take care of what to do with the cats and it is also his choice to follow your advice or not. In stating that you don't feel comfortable giving him more advice when it isn't going to fruition is a healthy boundary for you in this "relationship." You care about the cats and he doesn't seem to care too much about them. Unfortunately, in setting this boundary, it doesn't mean he may be more likely to adhere, but there isn't a whole lot you can do in the situation, otherwise. If he were a friend and you were often at his place of residence with the cats, then maybe you could do something. But because he is a regular customer only, you can only do so much to sway him to take your advice. Maybe in letting him know that you don't want to give any more advice to him will change how he interprets your advice or maybe make him more aware that your advice is sound in judgement? But that is wishful thinking for the best..... Let us know how all turns out, whatever you decide to do. |
Maharet : Taking a break : BV, Blitz, & Trig watching July 29th, 2020 5:44:04pm 2,469 Posts |
while "we" might know what is best the kitten is probably just happy to be eating something at this point and that is what is really important. |
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